So He Cheated

Your eyes have my attention.

The way that you stare and gaze

With those big brown bold bodacious eyes

Concealing every matter at heart

From the very beginning, the start

Until the mighty end, what tore each of you apart.

Secrets, manipulation, distorted facts, simple lies

Never could compare to the wedding day when vows were made, names and lives were changed.

The heart, the soul, the mind became one as months began to fly

Yet deep down inside you felt and knew that you were living a lie.

First was the thought, then the actions followed.

The spirit of lust overtook you and greed had its place too.

Examining your eyes, your gaze, it really says a lot, it pays.

The eyes truly are the windows to the soul.

You wanted more and the more that she gave and gave up wasn’t good enough for you.

You lost your passion, you lost your place.

You sought a challenge; you desired the glory of having it all:

Additional love exhibited emotionally, sexually, and relationally.

Simply stated, you desired to keep it professional, ambiguous, shrouded, and might I add sensual.

Who would ever suspect that your new love would be in the family but not of the family.

Cunning in your deceit, lost in your ways, blinded by the darkness which it could only hide.

See, your wife received the information; she knew the story all along yet she refused to be belligerent.

Instead she got on her knees and parted her lips to the one who loved to hear her voice calling His name.

He knew her heart, her thoughts, her walk and was aware of her pain.

Always there to take her by the hand, to lead and guide her, to comfort her, and to provide for her.

Sounds like a real man if you were to interrogate me.

But He isn’t necessarily in and of this world as you and me.

The one that she spoke with… she prayed and listened to.

She cried out to Him in the middle of the night praying for you, covering you, and trying her best to forgive you over and over and over again.

She went thru hell and torment for you.

She only stayed then and stays now, because she made a vow to love you.

Understand how difficult it is to surrender to a man who doesn’t love her the way that she needs to be loved

Who doesn’t model his love like that of her Father above.

Understand what you promised, what you vowed on the day that you were wed.

To throw it all away over greed, over lust, over rushed hidden sex?

Build your house.

Either build your relationship with the woman who has stayed by your side through the thick and the thin, who has tried her best to love you and to support you.

Or build it with another who may in time leave and lose you.

You’ve got a good, patient, God-fearing wife here who truly loves you.

It would be a major shame to lose her for a home-wrecking  soon-to-reap substitute.

So you cheated.

Repent.

Forgive yourself.

Move Forward.

Love the right way this time.

I am unable to make you do anything but as your appointed adviser, I suggest that you make this right.

My time is up.

Is there anything else that needs to be addressed or inquired?

This meeting has concluded.

I pray you each the best on your future endeavors.

If I can be of future assistance, do not hesitate to reach out.

Have a blessed day.